Session 2:
The Architecture of Dreams
During this session we discussed the points or ideas we highlighted in the reading material and did our scorecard check-in.
The scorecard check-in is always interesting. We have to determine if we feel we are “green” “yellow” or “red” in the areas of physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. “Green” is on track and working well. “Yellow” is okay…but not quite where I want to be. “Red” needs work and definitely not where I want to be. We have a couple participants that just cannot bring themselves to mark anything as “green”. So they developed their own color system. If they weren’t “green” but better than “yellow”, they became “lime green”. We had fun with that in each session that followed!
We also discussed some of our dreams and why we might be excited about them. A priority exercise was done to help us prioritize the steps to achieving our dreams. We were to list 5 things we wanted to do. For example, I listed 5 books I wanted to read. We then went down the list comparing #1 to #2 and deciding which was more important to us and putting a mark beside the one we chose. Next up was comparing #1 and #3, again checking which one was given preference. We continued on comparing #1 and #4, then #1 and #5, then #2 and #3, #2 and #4, #2 and #5, #3 and #4, #3 and #5 and last #4 and #5. At the end you will have 10 check marks. The one with the most check marks is where your priority is. This is how my 5 books priortized:
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EntreLeadership = |||
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First Man = |
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Steve Jobs = ||
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A Stolen Life =
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Battle for Leyte Gulf = ||||
As you can see, a book about the Battle of Leyte Gulf is the most important for me. The reasoning behind that decision: my father’s brother was killed during that battle on the USS Birmingham. I never knew this uncle but my father thought a lot of him and I would like to know more about his last hours alive. A year later and I still haven’t read any of these books! I must remedy that!
We also discussed breaking down our target dreams into measurable steps to achieve them. It is one thing to say “I will declutter the house”. Makes it seem very overwhelming. But breaking it down into areas such as:
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Paper clutter – shred, recycle, scan important information
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Clothes – remove and possibly donate clothes not worn in a year
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Basement – do a “clean sweep” of pitch, sell or keep
This makes it seem more doable. Baby steps will get you somewhere faster than trying to run a marathon the first time out!
Our homework, besides the reading, consisted of finalizing the action plans for our five target dreams. We were also encouraged to identify, cut out, and paste pictures of our target dreams in our dream book. Any other dreams would do also!
My first individual session was in March also. I’ll cover that in my next post!
